Gisele's Story: Not acceptable!

We were at Taka level 3, she dashed to the toys department and start grabbing toys (Look at the picture above). She said she want to buy and i told her no, not possible. She got upset and then got angry and start throwing temper and say she liked it a lot which she said all the time when she wants to buy. Reason i'm not buying is she got this thing in her little head, "I have to buy toys everytime we go out" which i can't accept. If she really really like it i can understand and buy if affordable. But she grab without looking at it and not only 1 but until her hands are full. This is not the way, and i don't want to spoilt her. Even if what she's carrying cost only $1 i will not give in too.

What really trigger my anger ticker is she actually open my bag and took out my wallet and want to go and pay when i said very clearly that i'm not going to buy. At such young age, this is terrible. I took back my wallet and explained again to her and also state very clearly i will not buy. Of course at her age you can't expect her to fully understand too so i just let her cry and kept telling her we can go for ice cream if she wants which she rejected.

In the end, the security uncle came and told her if she continue to cry he will take her away, might not totally help but it did improve the situation a bit. At least she stopped her screaming, for the whole 20minutes affair which i had watched her behavior closely, i feel that her temper is really bad. When i kept rejecting her she threw the toys on the floor and started screaming. People can stare and think i'm a bad mum, i don't care. If people really think that way that is because they are either a parent who spoilt their kids or they have no kids. If i don't stop this now, she might ask for a Chanel bag when she's 10.